Sneak Peak from the 4th and 5th chapter of the Girls Best Buddies

What is your definition of love?

Hello everyone, happy new week to you.  I quickly like to mention how grateful and thankful I am for you, indeed a blessing. In today’s blog, I will be sharing with you excerpts from the 4th and 5th chapter of The Girls Best Buddies.  Before I get into that, I would like to answer a major question that kept coming in last week. A lot of people reached out to me to know if they can get the book online. YES! You can get this book online as selling online is the major way through which I plan to sell my book. Copies of my book will be sent out to bloggers and people who are interested in reviewing the material.  Now I have that off the way,  My book will be launched on the 24th of September 2018; however, details on where to make the purchase will be communicated when possible.

The 4th chapter of The Girls  Best  Buddies is titled Relationship Tag. I felt like this would be one of those things young girls are always interested in learning about.  In my book, I had no problems dissecting everything that a relationship is and is not. Below are some things I said.


The concept relationship is far beyond emotional or physical intimacy, and this is why I will be opening your eyes to the beauty of being in a genuine relationship, as a matter of fact, most of our relationship goals consists of things we want our relationship to be like, and as young people we all want the kind of fairy tale relationships we see on TV, which is very attainable, but you have to consciously play some certain roles in order to be impactful in your relationship with others.

There are three stages and in it consist of three categories of people who you have to go into a relationship with consciously and willingly before building a fairy tale relationship experience in your head; it is also very important to know that a relationship shouldn’t be based on what you can get out of it, but rather it should be more of what you can invest into it. Below with a diagram, I will share with you the three stages and its occupants that you have to go into a relationship with before getting caught up in your feelings.

5th Chapter

The 5th chapter of this book is titled Love- (How to tell you are loved by someone). Based on my understanding of the definition of Love according to the Bible . “Love is patient, it is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, love is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hope, always perseveres”- 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. I was able to tap them out of the well of lust. I talked about things they should be more concerned about before loving up on someone. I also succeeded in helping them understand that love is not blind as many claims. Here is an excerpt from this chapter.


Your knowledge about relationship is not a guarantee to live a life without emotional challenges; as a matter of fact, one with this knowledge should live life cautiously because your knowledge and strength will be tested by forces but your ability to manoeuvre the devices of the devil differentiate you from others. Satan knows you have this key, which is the knowledge on how to be successful in your relationships, so he will try to make sure you don’t succeed in implementing this knowledge. The satan is scared of us experiencing genuine love, and that’s why he attacks us while we are young when he knows we are not conscious of what true love is and the roles we have to play in our relationship, so most times he uses his device which most people mistakes for love. 

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